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The Bridge #1

Fall, 1997

The Other Side

When I thought about naming this newsletter, I remembered how I used to visualize the journey I was awaiting -- to cross over a bridge (of transplantation) to renewed health. Everytime I felt too tired to imagine even getting up, I visualized this bridge. Reaching the other side was not an end, but rather a beginning of new vitality both physically and mentally. Many who read this do not know me yet, but I feel sure there is much we share in common.

While transplantation itself is lifesaving, I've found that reaching the other side has brought with it unexpected rewards. I've met some of you, as well as others around the world who have had very diverse experiences and whose lives have been enriched by gaining a new and more positive outlook on life. Telling and listening to our stories has helped me recover and look forward to my new life. In speaking to friends, groups at church, school or at club meetings, I have seen the looks of understanding and caring grow. Understanding our options often can compensate for the losses we feel facing debilitating disease. The more people touch our lives, the more willing they are to adopt organ and tissue donation as an important issue in their lives. This spring everyone receiving an federal income refund will have an opportunity to consider donation. Let's hope that this effort increases awareness and commitment to donation.

In the past year have had time to promote organ donor awareness in my immediate community and to talk on the radio about my illness and subsequent transplant. Most importantly, I have had time to enjoy my son who has spent much of his life with a mother too tired to keep up with his enthusiasm for life. And, I have had the privilege of finding a new friend in an especially courageous mother whose family decided to donate the organs of her son when he died suddenly four years ago. I look forward to continued learning and inspiration that I get from all the pioneers out there, patients, families and medical practitioners, who are living in this miraculous time. I am grateful that I am living, and living in these times.

Many of us knew each other from the California Pacific Medical Center. Now, we are together at support meetings, clinic visits, internet and have formed a uniquely new community of relationships. As editor, I encourage you to write of your experiences here and let me know how you would like to keep in touch.

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